Parents must-read: Facing the eve of the child's college entrance examination 10 Jiyu

Background: From 1977 to 2008, 31 years and nearly 46 million people and college entrance examination not only cemented relationship, but also because of changes in college entrance examination of their own destiny, but also changed the fate of thousands of families. Therefore, when yet another year of college entrance examination approaching, we have many reasons to concern about it. Thus, only to the Three Gorges on-line through the power of blog, with a different point of concern to the college entrance examination in 2008. Concerned about the 2008 one of the college entrance examination Parents must-read: Facing the eve of the child's college entrance examination 10 Jiyu Three Gorges online that in mind: This should be a very comprehensive summary of an article is written for parents. Lin Kao ago, as the candidates parents, you know that most candidates do not want to hear what the parents said it » This is part of the candidates comes from the common aspirations, perhaps through some other means have seen, but now, a blog, therefore, hope that the Three Gorges on-line here so that more parents can read it. Jiyu 1: "Come on! Parents, and so you successful return!" Examinations have children at home, the family sent out a very common thing. Many candidates parents of the children have been sent to the examination room, we must also constantly asked. In fact, the children want to test Chuhaochengji, college entrance examination is a proficiency examinations, arbitrary and unrealistic if the parents asked, instead let the children did not mind more confident. Jiyu 2: "I wish you success!" Especially those parents not to send the candidates, parents do not know how to express their concern for children, like this one Reminder, in fact, not necessary. If not successful with its wishes into "safety" and "all the way carefully" the candidates concerned about the safety of discourse, because this word to convey the message that "parents care about me, I am not only concerned about the results." Jiyu 3: "Remember your goal, the success or failure in this one stroke!" Some parents prefer their children to set goals. The college entrance examination and often seen too important and too much emphasis on college entrance examination in the life of the role that child if Kaobu Shang, or test less than a good college, will have a direct impact on the future of the future. Jiyu 4: "Our family child-Hui bar examination results, teachers say that this test results Tsinghua University no problem!" College entrance examination is the ability to test, test-good results can be reflected from one aspect of the child does well, but the test model is not real firearms in the examination room, good-test results, but the real test can not adapt to the examination room atmosphere, the impact of the test to play Minority candidates. Remind parents, do not give children unrealistic high expectations, so in effect to increase the pressure on children, time is likely to directly affect the child's normal play. Jiyu 5: "to look at that carefully and seriously answer, do not have any major omission, for many the least points." Former teachers college entrance examination has repeatedly Reminder, the candidates have some hope that the examination skills, can be more and more on the Na Yifen Na Yifen, when parents do not say any more of. This is because no one in their own candidates are reluctant to have mastered the knowledge of the point Diufen. Jiyu 6: "Now you test the quality of review time comes, you have to take full advantage of." Today's children are aware of the importance of college entrance examination, most candidates will seriously review, notes that they also hope that through their own efforts, can grasp the opportunity to begin a journey of life. Parents say so, that most children will already volatile emotions more difficult to calm. Jiyu 7: "to adhere to, to try Kaowan good, and you are on the liberation of the parents." Children have heard this, will feel that they are the burden of parents, like parents are so hard their cause, and if those encountered stubborn, willful child, may contradict and even hurt feelings of both sides, the direct impact To test the child's emotional stability. Serious, it might even lead to hate children examinations. Jiyu 8: "the same people, I do not believe that my home than children of poor people." In real life, there are some parents take their children to love each other competition, a correct attitude is that no matter how other people's children, as long as the physical and mental health of their children, understand the basic principles of life, parents should have to meet. Jiyu 9: "Father and mother are so hard to you, you have to Clear the Air, You Chuxi." Now the parents pay a lot for their children, they also hope to get the child's return. Many parents believe that their children not adults, children learn best, consciously, and progress is carefully cultivated parents the best return. Many parents also wishful thinking to be admitted to the University of the child, whether the children admitted to good universities and linking the fate of the future. Jiyu 10: "Kao Bushang parents will not blame you, next year we re-review." Many parents hope to use this case to give the children decompression, to help them wide heart. In fact, most of the candidates very disgusted with this sentence, they feel that the college entrance examination has not said this, is the ability of parents to them a negative.