"Defenders of childhood"

"What is the childhood» childhood is Yizhi Ge! " Recall their childhood, each one of us have hearts of the duo as the flowers open, though occasionally poverty and unhappiness, but the golden tone was distributed in the light of happiness. "Our children should have a more happy childhood, but that right now the need to 'defend' the degree." China Youth Research Center, deputy director of Sun Yun Xiao, in a recent exclusive interview with our reporter, had sent a loud and the advocate.
  let the children have a happy childhood, this is not a gift, but a right. China's "law on protection of minors," clearly put forward, to give minors under the age of 18 special protection and conservation priorities, the protection of their right to subsistence, the right to development, protection and participation rights. It can be said that these four basic rights can achieve, that is, children can be happy the fundamental criterion. "This year, June 1, I would like to talk about is the theme of 'defending' childhood, to give the children should have the right," Sun Yun Xiao said.
  utilitarian distorted the child's heart
  "Now, being childhood education and various erroneous concept of a large scale offensive, has been difficult to resist, scattered everywhere, nowhere to hide the stage." Sun Xiao said, "We are now almost the education of children formed a childhood of 'encirclement' status, parents and teachers of utilitarian education, the children did not make today's childhood, or childhood is very short." He has done a survey, 83.6 percent of the students parents asked their children to the top 15 examination, 91.7 percent of parents hope their children will study in universities, 54.7 percent of the students parents hope their children will read Dr. . Such unreasonable demands, causing more than half of the primary and middle school students learning overtime, insufficient sleep, leading to the childhood of panic and fear. Sun Xiao pointed out that China's competitive environment is so much pressure on children caused by the root causes. On the one hand, is China's exam-oriented education system, on the other hand Wangzaichenglong China's strong desire of parents, both of exactly amenable to the idea.
  from another perspective, today's children's education is being distorted, Sun Xiao-called "education abandoned." Outwardly, the very tight grasp, in fact the real education has been neglected. Many parents said that the maximum sentence is: "The children, as long as you learn to do a good job, you do not have any other possession," It is this kind of education their children would be a mortal wound. Had a child examination of the first test, but it Wu Wu returned home to cry. Another reason is that students have a perfect test, he will be psychologically difficult. This shows that he has psychological problems, reflect an extremely selfish and vicious competition-distorting state. In recent years, China has many famous universities of student suicide, the children generally have very good study, the reasons for the cultivation of character is relatively poor. "Education is the core of a healthy personality, not just imparting knowledge. Personality and psychological health, is one of the most important growth," Sun Yun Xiao stressed.
  sound partnership calls for childhood
  When talking about China's current one-child policy, Sun Xiao believes that the "one-child-only-child and there is no essential difference. One child does not mean that the problem of children, one child may not be non-normal development, this is an international On the one-child study of a mainstream idea. "
  He said that the development of three major factors, genetic, environmental and education, the main difference is the only child of the environment and education differences. We must educate the information generation, parents today is the need for posts licences. Now, only through a good education to a single child, which requires the parents together, mutual assistance, to smaller home for everyone, and change alone support group for support. Children, not the lack of companions and a person grow up alone. Parents to love their children, can not replace the role of companions. Only in the play with peers, the children can be truly happy. If the parents give their children isolated from the world, their character will gradually change, loneliness, willfulness.
  Sun Yun Xiao told reporters on several relatively good educational methods. One is the "Star River happy home", from 1994 onwards, the China Youth Research Center, had been promoting this model. Three family support group like the same play every weekend together. The second is "on the 1st battalion," is a team of students, Jia Quzhu weekend to a child one day. The third is "to travel by children", children from the cold summer travel, select a group trip with friends. Sun Xiao also gave a briefing on an international approach, called "Hostel." For example, he said, "my daughter studying in a primary school when the Japanese school, children often receive the Japanese to their own lives for a period of time, my daughter has also used the summer to those living in Japan for some little girl home. I found that this way the exchange of children The impact of very large, understand that a lot of truth. "
  ancient Mencius once advocated the "differences of teaching," he is to benefit in the new environment to adapt to the new role, while the broad field of vision. "Children want to grow up, parents must dare to take some risks," Sun Yun Xiao-sum up to.
  looking for the lost "Baicao Garden"
  Mr. Lu Xun once he mentioned the Baicao Garden, the children should be the same as the growth of wildflowers. First, the nature of the human children, even the best family education, school education, are not a substitute for nature education. Sun Xiao said, "I am a child of poverty, but very free, very happy, this has affected the mental state of my today."
  dissemination of the aromatic nature of the soil, is a nutrient-rich, full of charm of the place. But now, due to heavy schoolwork, plus the worry that an accident injury, the nature and artificially isolated from the children, making children to nature in the sense of not adapting, not close to flu. The city children to nature, prefer to hide in the house watching TV, because he did not think that's what What to do, did not feel that the United States, on the status of labor in the offensive.
  the study is actually a full range of feelings. Accept the new knowledge and information, sometimes not through language, but through visual, touch, smell and other senses. Sun Xiao worried that "life in the city, children are a waste." The city's tall buildings, will become the feeling of slow, numbness, only to nature, will feel the real world, in particular noted that the wind rain. Sun Xiao-now also deeply remember a child's poem: "tack, tack, under a light rain. BarleyLife ® denim that the next bar under the bar, I would like to grow up. Heng Fa Chuen said that under it under the bar, I would like to blossom…… tack Tack, under a light rain. " Only in a very quiet mind, in nature, see raindrops hit the leaves, will have such feelings, appreciate everything recovery and growth of the kind of feeling. Young children, too few life experiences. Deprived of his right of nature close to his emotional world will become more pale. French philosopher Rousseau had said that before the age of 15 grew up in rural areas. Children need to embrace the natural parents to know what is the most important, to foster the children's physical and mental health is the most important, this is the basis of life.
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